Skip to content. I care for my girlfriend, whom I have been seeing for a few months now. I have no problem maintaining an erection when she performs oral sex on me.
Last week I went on a date with a girl I met online, and we ended up going back to her place. When I pulled the condom out, I started to get nervous, and lost my hard-on. They let me have sex with whoever I want whilst protecting me from a bunch of diseases.
When it comes to safe sex, condoms are often the best option. Protecting against pregnancies where applicable and the transmission of many sexually transmitted infections STIsthey are especially useful in new relationships or casual encounters. Unfortunately, they come with a couple of well-documented downsides.
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You meet someone at a bar, you flirt, and the sexual chemistry is obvious. You invite them back to your place. Tops come off, then bottoms do, too.
Relationship counsellor and sex therapist, author of 'Sex Down Under'. At the same time it's scary that so many women don't insist their partners use one, especially in a new relationship. Some women who are on the pill mistakenly believe they don't need to use a condom, but it's not just about preventing an accidental pregnancy.
And why? It's because of the simple fact that large numbers of young men and a few older ones lose their erections as soon as they try to put a condom on. Since then, this term has been taken up around the world and there are nowreferences to it on the net - plus a German pop song named after it.
It's amazing how often men tell me they don't use a condom because they think it makes them lose their erection. At the same time it's scary that so many women don't insist their partners use one, especially in a new relationship. Some women who are on the pill mistakenly believe they don't need to use a condom, but it's not just about preventing an accidental pregnancy. The danger — especially these days — is the risk of contracting sexually transmitted infections.
Everything is perfect, the foreplay is going great, and the stage is set for a throbbing, mind-blowing, heart-shattering lovemaking. Your erection is strong and powerful, and feeling it turns you on even more. And then, that moment comes.